MM everyone....most of you know what's going on cause i sent out the e-mails...but for the rest of you here it is.... his vent is set at 26 bpm, and he's breathing 27/29...his oxygen is down to 40%, and his WBC is down to 19.000
his eyes were open most of the day, and tonight, he let out 2 really huge lion sized yawns...it's was really funny. he looked shocked as he was yawning...lmao
that's pretty much the end of the news tonight. i'm about to go to bed. i have to pick up Spike's collar and tags tomorrow, i forgot to get them when i picked up his ashes.
Merry Meet everyone. as you can see, MJ woke up today. i got the call at 3:37pm, and don't remember the drive to the hosp. lol he puckered up as soon as he saw me. i cried. he reconigized me, his dad, step mom, and step sister. he didn't let me go for longer than 3 minutes. he kept holding my hand!!!
i didn't expect him to wake up this soon. but then again, it feels like forever. and i'm babbling, LMAO...
MM everyone....i went up to the hosp after i took Michael to school today. his nurse told me that MJ wasn't tracking very well. she walked out of the room, and i just glanced at the TV, when she walked back in, i told her 'no wonder he isn't tracking...he's watching TV' there was a story about earnhardt,sr on. lol
they had him in a chair for about 2 hours today, so when i went back up tonight, the poor man was exhausted. but he's still doing good. and he keeps looking better!!! they are supposed to start weaning him off of the vent sometime next week, if all goes well.
MM everyone...today is MJ's birthday...he's 34. it's nothing short of a miracle that he made it to this day!!! thank you all for everything that you have done.
on a lighter note...i made a cake to take up to the hosp. later tonight...well, i love to cook. i was going to go to culinary school, so a cake is the easiest thing for me to make. YEAH RIGHT!!! the first cake i made, i burnt. i mean cajun style blackened!!! the second one was just slightly better. it's a lil crunchy, but not black. when it happened, i was so ready to cry it was crazy. but now, it's sad but so very funny. i was bested by a stove that's older than i am. the thing is a General Motors oven. yes i mean GM, not a GE. that's how old it is.
ok, i'm going to give the oldest monster a bath, and get ready to go see the birthday boy.
MM ya'll...MJ had an extremely lucid day today. i went in at about 10:30pm..had a study session...and he was wide awake, kissing me, holding my hand, and trying to pull out the vent hoses!!!!! crazy as it sounds, it's great that he's doing that!!!
still looking great. his O2 saturation on the vent is 35%, and normal air is 21% so, he's almost there on that level. i'm TOTALLY excited! lol
they were supposed to wean MJ off of the sedative last night. and he had a cat scan of his belly done yesterday. everything was normal. so i asked the dr why is he still needing blood, cause the last time we heard, there was some bleeding and no one knew where it was. he told me that there isn't any bleeding, but due to the kidney failure, his bone marrow isn't producing the red cells that he needs, and that's why he's getting blood. and he assured me that everything going on now is 100% normal
kinda wish that they woulda told me that SOONER!!! but that's ok, as long as it's all good now!
he's more alert and active everyday, and i'm talking w/ his case worker about a rehab place for him. she told me about one that's south of orlando in a place called wacula, or something like that. i told her that no matter how pretty it looks in the pics, or how well the rehab is, he's not going if i don't like it. so sometime soon, i'll be making a trip to visit this place.
MJ is doing well. they lowered his vent to 16 BPM, and he's breathing at about 28, so he's in the normal range. his white cell count is down to 13,500.
i just found out that the insurance probably won't cover the hospital bills. MJ had a BAL of .183, i'm not sure what the legal limit is, but i know that he was over it. they are also saying that he had drugs in his system...well, DUH!!! the blood for the test was drawn 2 hours after the accident, they had given him meds in the helicopter as well as in the ER. those people are complete and total J******ES. (hope that was censored enough,heidi)
the only people that are worried about me, mom, and the kids are his mom, and my family. his father is starting his crap again. yeah, he's helping by making sure i get a paycheck every week, but he keeps adding to my stress level by saying really stupid stuff. i'm going to ask my dr if he can set up an appt w/ a shrink. maybe that will help me. some one that can listen to me cuss my brains out, and give me a new perspective. mom seems to think that if i start screaming at people that will help. it won't, it'll just cause a family feud.
i'm not worried about the hosp bills. the one he's in is not for profit, so i can send like $5 a month and they will be happy. i'm going to be talking to our family friend that's also our lawyer and see what can be done.
MM everyone...i thought that you would like to hear some good news. they had MJ off of the vent for a little bit today. he actually vocalized 'i love you' to me!!! yeah, i cried.
i asked him if it was ok to bring Teri up to see him tomorrow, and he said yes, bring her.
again, i apologize for not updating you sooner, but things have been nutzo around here. they lowered MJ's vent today, it's now at 10, so he's pretty much breathing on his own. he has an infection in his urine, and is in isolation, but that's just standard procedure. no one is really worried about this infection.
i have an appt tuesday at 1 w/ a therapist, so hopefully soon, i can feel kinda normal again. not holding my breath cause i was never 'normal' to begin with lol
Yaaaayyyyy!!! That's fantastic news, Kelly! I haven't been posting lately, but have been following this thread almost daily. You've been a brave and devoted wife and mother, and I'm sure your strength has helped MJ as much as anything the medical team has done.
Continuing to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers....
Brightest blessings, Silverweb
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well, i talked to MJ's nurse yesterday afternoon, and he told me that MJ should be out in about a month. then i talked to MJ's dr lastnight, and he told me a week to 10 days.
so the way i figure it, he'll be out any time now. (they can't deciede what they are doing lol)
i'm going to tampa either tomorrow or thursday, and i'll let you all know how it went.
he's doing well. he's breathing on his own and trying to get out of the chair. his dad is still driving me nutz, but therapy is helping. it's really scary when your therapist agrees w/ you about your father-in-law, isn't it!
ok, Tampa is REALLLY far away. but i found out that there is a waiting list for the VA hospita. so mj isn't being transferred next week. it could be 2 weeks, to 6 months. lovely,huh?
but he is doing well. his speech therapist had him drinking thickened water, and he really enjoyed it. it's been almost 3 months since he drank anything!!!
ok, the trip to tampa wasn't too bad. although,finding parking at the hospital was horrid!! i almost got into a fight w/ some old dude... lol, drama just keeps coming.
MJ's room is really small, but private so i'm not complaining. i met 2 of his therapists and they seem really cool. they are willing to let me work w/ them doing his rehab.
i didn't go this weekend like i planned cause i'm sick as a dog. but i plan on going thru the week. it's killing me being this far away and not being able to see him every day. but he knows why i'm not there.
the nurses told me that the rehab program is very intensive, but it only lasts about 4 weeks. so if everything goes well, MJ will be home the day before thanksgiving. i can't wait!!!!
I'm planning on taking Mom and the kids up next weekend. depends on the money situation. i have 2 places i can crash, but i cant take the kids. (my bro's best friend is putting me up, how sweet is that???)
but that's all for now, i have to go take some meds....
just a quick note to let you know that i will be in Tampa tomorrow. MJ doesn't know that Spike, his lil weiner dog, didn't make it. so tomorrow, i'm telling him. i don't want his father telling him, and i don't want MJ getting mad at me for keeping it from him.
i will also be in Tampa this weekend. so if anyone needs me, just beep or call the cell.
again, my apologizes for not posting sooner, but i went to tampa today. MJ will be home for the thanksgiving weekend. he needs to be back that saturday, but should be home a week or 2 after that!!!!!!!